Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Women don't talk about other men because they're dumb, that label is reserved for the guy who actually sits there and listens to it.AttackFormation said:
Big red flag if she badmouths all of her ex's. This one cheated on me, this one treated me poorly, this one was still in love with his ex, etc. They fail to realize two thingsAttackFormation said:
Not in all cases. Some women do it on purpose, others are just so clueless and dumb that they don't know better, just like someone who can't read basic social cues. They don't think (intelligently) before speaking and will mention their exes in conversations because they happen to think of them in the moment for whatever reason. I agree that you shouldn't be a chump and take it but not every single thing is only about reflecting back on a man's game... you have to hold them responsible for their own actions.G_Govan said:
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You can't even worry about this one. I wouldn't worry about her unless you are going over there or she is coming over to your place. A movie night with a drink to "chill"... And if she turns you down to make out and approach sex, you gotta cut her loose.pyros said: