That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Women don't talk about other men because they're dumb, that label is reserved for the guy who actually sits there and listens to it.AttackFormation said:
Big red flag if she badmouths all of her ex's. This one cheated on me, this one treated me poorly, this one was still in love with his ex, etc. They fail to realize two thingsAttackFormation said:
Not in all cases. Some women do it on purpose, others are just so clueless and dumb that they don't know better, just like someone who can't read basic social cues. They don't think (intelligently) before speaking and will mention their exes in conversations because they happen to think of them in the moment for whatever reason. I agree that you shouldn't be a chump and take it but not every single thing is only about reflecting back on a man's game... you have to hold them responsible for their own actions.G_Govan said:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You can't even worry about this one. I wouldn't worry about her unless you are going over there or she is coming over to your place. A movie night with a drink to "chill"... And if she turns you down to make out and approach sex, you gotta cut her loose.pyros said: