"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girl playing C&F too!

T Money

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So i sent this chick on myspace a message saying I was moving to her city in a few weeks, drop me a line if you want, if not, that's cool too.

She sent me back saying yeah yada yada tell me more about yourself.

I said something like "I would, but then you'd just fall in love with me and I'd break your heart, and I don't want to do that :) Just lookin' out for ya!"

something like that.

Anyway, she responds with the SAME thing. Said something like:

"nice response, yeah I don't want you to fall in love at first site either, it's hard to get guys off me when you're this perfect."

WTF? Backfire? Insecure? Both??

EDIT: Here's the exact conversation breakdown:

T: hey what's up i'm moving to the city in july and i'm trying to network with some people so i'm not socially retarded when i get there. if you want to drop me a line, cool. if not, that's cool too. have a nice day.

-T

Her:hey, good thinking. it is a small city, but can be big if you don't know anyone. which area are you moving to? i live in the richmond and really like it. tell me a little about yourself.


Me:Sunset district, moving there in July. No idea what's around me besides CCSF and SFSU.

I'd tell you a little about myself, but then you'd probably fall in love with me and I don't want to HAVE to break your heart like that :D I'm just lookin out for ya! ;)

But how about this. If we're living around the same area, maybe we meet up for coffee sometime?

-T



Her:Nice resonse, but that was my original concern. It can be really hard keeping the guys off of you when you are this perfect :) But what is a girl to do? Sunset isn't far from the Richmond, but nothing is far from anything in the city. Coffee sounds fine, everyone likes it. But again, please don't fall in love at first sight, it gets really uncomfortable when I have to tell you that I don't feel the same way.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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amoka

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Great response from her. Expect similar respond from many girls when you're out on the field sarging.
 
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