"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl playing C&F too!

T Money

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So i sent this chick on myspace a message saying I was moving to her city in a few weeks, drop me a line if you want, if not, that's cool too.

She sent me back saying yeah yada yada tell me more about yourself.

I said something like "I would, but then you'd just fall in love with me and I'd break your heart, and I don't want to do that :) Just lookin' out for ya!"

something like that.

Anyway, she responds with the SAME thing. Said something like:

"nice response, yeah I don't want you to fall in love at first site either, it's hard to get guys off me when you're this perfect."

WTF? Backfire? Insecure? Both??

EDIT: Here's the exact conversation breakdown:

T: hey what's up i'm moving to the city in july and i'm trying to network with some people so i'm not socially retarded when i get there. if you want to drop me a line, cool. if not, that's cool too. have a nice day.

-T

Her:hey, good thinking. it is a small city, but can be big if you don't know anyone. which area are you moving to? i live in the richmond and really like it. tell me a little about yourself.


Me:Sunset district, moving there in July. No idea what's around me besides CCSF and SFSU.

I'd tell you a little about myself, but then you'd probably fall in love with me and I don't want to HAVE to break your heart like that :D I'm just lookin out for ya! ;)

But how about this. If we're living around the same area, maybe we meet up for coffee sometime?

-T



Her:Nice resonse, but that was my original concern. It can be really hard keeping the guys off of you when you are this perfect :) But what is a girl to do? Sunset isn't far from the Richmond, but nothing is far from anything in the city. Coffee sounds fine, everyone likes it. But again, please don't fall in love at first sight, it gets really uncomfortable when I have to tell you that I don't feel the same way.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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amoka

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Great response from her. Expect similar respond from many girls when you're out on the field sarging.
 
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