"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girl phone number in my pocket

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Just need some tips,

I went to this bar yesterday, a place where everybody drinks a lot and where the age average is quite young. When i got out the bar, i noticed a little paper with a girl name and her 2 phone numbers in my pocket. I have no idea who it is and I wonder if I should call her. After all, why didnt she talked to me? What does she look like?

Tell me what you think about it.
Should i even call her?
Should i call her this evening or wait for a couple of days?

Thx.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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listen, here's what you do: call the number. you have nothing to lose. what will happen? no one can tell you that, but it's definitely worth a phone call to find out.
 
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Go for it....whats to lose?? put it this way, if it really is a girls number, she just took out the hard part of you going up to her and getting it....

Now a word of caution because a friend of mine just had a bad experience this week with meeting someone he never saw before....Needless to say the girl was disgusting..according to my friend, she even had a dried booger on her jacket, lolololol.....

Point to take home: Go for it, but look out for the consequences, because they may not always be so good!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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