"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl phone number in my pocket

Quek

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Just need some tips,

I went to this bar yesterday, a place where everybody drinks a lot and where the age average is quite young. When i got out the bar, i noticed a little paper with a girl name and her 2 phone numbers in my pocket. I have no idea who it is and I wonder if I should call her. After all, why didnt she talked to me? What does she look like?

Tell me what you think about it.
Should i even call her?
Should i call her this evening or wait for a couple of days?

Thx.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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golf299

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listen, here's what you do: call the number. you have nothing to lose. what will happen? no one can tell you that, but it's definitely worth a phone call to find out.
 

LostbutFound

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Go for it....whats to lose?? put it this way, if it really is a girls number, she just took out the hard part of you going up to her and getting it....

Now a word of caution because a friend of mine just had a bad experience this week with meeting someone he never saw before....Needless to say the girl was disgusting..according to my friend, she even had a dried booger on her jacket, lolololol.....

Point to take home: Go for it, but look out for the consequences, because they may not always be so good!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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