"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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WingHead

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I was on Facebook today and looked over at my "People you may know" and saw this gorgeous girl that I have 6 friends in common with. Sent her a friend request, she accepted shortly after.

I haven't done anything yet, figured it was best not to jump in for two reasons. First, don't want to look too eager, and second, I wanted to get some opinions here first.

I usually stick to meeting girls in person, but this girl is gorgeous so I felt I had to try. :)

Would anyone mind telling me how to go about talking to her? I was thinking exchange some messages, get her number, ask to hang out eventually. But I don't know what to say.

If anyone could tell me what the best way to initiate a conversation with her is, as I don't have experience with this kind of thing, it'd be much appreciated. Thanks ahead of time.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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go to her profile and like most not all of the same interests and movies and ****.... She will see it and no u two have something in common. Also u can say u were updating yur prof and her name kept popping up on the blah blah and x amount of ppl like this too.
 

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justkyle said:
go to her profile and like most not all of the same interests and movies and ****.... She will see it and no u two have something in common. Also u can say u were updating yur prof and her name kept popping up on the blah blah and x amount of ppl like this too.
The thing is that her profile is pretty bare bones. She doesn't 'like' a lot of things that I can see, she mostly posts on other people's pages.

All I know so far is she is a dancer, on the school dance team I believe.
 

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simple as pie. Send her a message and simply say you want to learn how to dance. Yo always wanted to..... Now your gonna. Tell her you will pay her 150 dollars. She will prolly bite @ this. If not. Sell it. After she bites simply set up your first meeting to get to know each other first. Then set up meetings throuout time pref close together. U oay her at the end. Bam meeting and mad kino. Work from there.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MrP said:
Ask if you know each other. What classes are you in. Do you know so and so? Seriously, this is easy.
I went with this, figured I'll keep it simple. Thanks for the help guys. I'll update when/if she replies.
 

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So I messaged her on Wednesday, she replied about an hour later. We exchanged a few messages and then she just stopped talking. What now? I want to try again before I forget about her.
 

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one she is not interested. Two..... You blew ur chance to try it my way brah. Which has never yet failed me.
 

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justkyle said:
one she is not interested. Two..... You blew ur chance to try it my way brah. Which has never yet failed me.
It evened out though. This other girl added me and I had a conversation with her that ended with her giving me her number and her saying "You should text me." Go figure. Thanks for the help man, much appreciated. :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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