"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I was on Facebook today and looked over at my "People you may know" and saw this gorgeous girl that I have 6 friends in common with. Sent her a friend request, she accepted shortly after.

I haven't done anything yet, figured it was best not to jump in for two reasons. First, don't want to look too eager, and second, I wanted to get some opinions here first.

I usually stick to meeting girls in person, but this girl is gorgeous so I felt I had to try. :)

Would anyone mind telling me how to go about talking to her? I was thinking exchange some messages, get her number, ask to hang out eventually. But I don't know what to say.

If anyone could tell me what the best way to initiate a conversation with her is, as I don't have experience with this kind of thing, it'd be much appreciated. Thanks ahead of time.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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go to her profile and like most not all of the same interests and movies and ****.... She will see it and no u two have something in common. Also u can say u were updating yur prof and her name kept popping up on the blah blah and x amount of ppl like this too.
 
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justkyle said:
go to her profile and like most not all of the same interests and movies and ****.... She will see it and no u two have something in common. Also u can say u were updating yur prof and her name kept popping up on the blah blah and x amount of ppl like this too.
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The thing is that her profile is pretty bare bones. She doesn't 'like' a lot of things that I can see, she mostly posts on other people's pages.

All I know so far is she is a dancer, on the school dance team I believe.
 
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simple as pie. Send her a message and simply say you want to learn how to dance. Yo always wanted to..... Now your gonna. Tell her you will pay her 150 dollars. She will prolly bite @ this. If not. Sell it. After she bites simply set up your first meeting to get to know each other first. Then set up meetings throuout time pref close together. U oay her at the end. Bam meeting and mad kino. Work from there.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MrP said:
Ask if you know each other. What classes are you in. Do you know so and so? Seriously, this is easy.
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I went with this, figured I'll keep it simple. Thanks for the help guys. I'll update when/if she replies.
 
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So I messaged her on Wednesday, she replied about an hour later. We exchanged a few messages and then she just stopped talking. What now? I want to try again before I forget about her.
 
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one she is not interested. Two..... You blew ur chance to try it my way brah. Which has never yet failed me.
 
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one she is not interested. Two..... You blew ur chance to try it my way brah. Which has never yet failed me.
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It evened out though. This other girl added me and I had a conversation with her that ended with her giving me her number and her saying "You should text me." Go figure. Thanks for the help man, much appreciated. :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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