"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ElStud

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Alright couple days ago, I messaged this chick who was friends, with a dude that I used to be best friends with. The convo so far has gone like this:

Hey, do you know [friend?]

Her: yeah.

Me: How do you know him, were you like together?

Her: No, I know him through [another mutual friend].

Me: Cool. Yeah I know [another mutual friend]. He's one of my dudes. We go clubbing all the time. We party hard lol. Do you party?

Her: Well, duh.

Me: Awesome. Maybe you and my friends could go out clubbing together. Still don't know if you're cool enough. What's stands out about you?

Her: A lot I guess, you'll just have to find out for yourself.
Of course, this isn't EXACTLY how the convo went, which is intentional, but yeah.

Should I start trying to get some rapport going or something?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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It is the mighty El Stud again bragging to sosuave about his conquests with his alpha male dudes so they can have more MMF threesomes.

So, you trying to get another girl hooked up with your friend so you can have sloppy seconds again?
 

ElStud

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corrector said:
It is the mighty El Stud again bragging to sosuave about his conquests with his alpha male dudes so they can have more MMF threesomes.

So, you trying to get another girl hooked up with your friend so you can have sloppy seconds again?
Haha. If this was two years ago I might be mad at you.

But right now, I'm just going to laugh.

It's called social proof. Maybe you've heard of it, telling a girl about your friends so she knows you're not anti-social?
 

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He's one of my dudes. We go clubbing all the time. We party hard lol
Make an appearance at the club with your entourage and SHOW her you like to party.
Telling her means nothing, let her see you and the boys in ACTION
 

corrector

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ElStud said:
Haha. If this was two years ago I might be mad at you.

But right now, I'm just going to laugh.

It's called social proof. Maybe you've heard of it, telling a girl about your friends so she knows you're not anti-social?
Social proof means you have other HOT attractive women that are vying for your attention, not other dudes - that is just gay. Social proof means if you don't get her, you have another girl to replace her, not another guy.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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corrector said:
Social proof means you have other HOT attractive women that are vying for your attention, not other dudes - that is just gay. Social proof means if you don't get her, you have another girl to replace her, not another guy.
Nah, social proof just means you have a lot of friends and are well-entrenched in social circles. As far as I'm concerned that's girls and guys.

Having other hot girls vying for your attention is more like pre-selection.
 

I'm in the Mood

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Your conversation is very vanilla, but that happens during first convos I suppose. I suggest you reply with "Like what?" to her last response.
 
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