Girl off OLD gives me a straight invite to her place with no meetup...should I be cautious?

[BackInTheGame78]

Never had this happen before but I just started messaging a woman today, she gave me her number, i shot her a text a few hours later and she basically seems DTF from the get go.

She asked if I wanted to meet up tonight and I told her I was busy and countered with Thursday. She said that works and asked if I wanted to just come over to her place. Now I know this is pretty much a slam dunk lay unless I screw something up royally but I'm also a little cautious about the whole thing.

I joked that was cool unless she was planning to rob or roofie me and she laughed and said she isn't that type of girl.

Has anyone else had experience with a chick that just gives you a straight invite to her place? She also asked what I drink so I am assuming she will be getting me some alcohol.

Thoughts? Concerns?

 

[biggoal]

Sounds like a setup for robbery. Never meet at someone's place for first date. We've had that here in fl someone meeting for first time in private place off old and robbed

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

if it sounds too good to be true, it probably is. enter at your own risk.

i always meet out somewhere first for a quick drink or coffee even if she's dying to screw. i want to make sure she smells fine, looks like her pics, i'm attracted, her breath doesn't smell, etc. it's more of an exercise so i don't waste my time. and if she checks all the boxes i can tease her and feel like a king while she curls up begging me to take her home. i've had girls crawling over me when i meet up with them and we end up chugging our drinks and running out within a couple minutes. it's easy and saves you tons of time if she turns out to be a catfish. she might just be banking on you being a nice guy that won't leave if she turns out to be fugly.

 

[sangheilios]

Ask yourself this, would a woman ever invite a complete stranger, one she has literally had 0 face to face interaction with, over to her apartment? Of course not lol.

OLD is just creepy all around, I'd be super cautious over something like this.

 

[biggoal]

Ask yourself this, would a woman ever invite a complete stranger, one she has literally had 0 face to face interaction with, over to her apartment? Of course not lol.

OLD is just creepy all around, I'd be super cautious over something like this.

OLD is supposed to be the way to meet your future husband/wife and top quality, high SMV women though!

 

[Black Widow Void]

About fifteen years ago, I was in your shoes. And yeah, I was a bit suspicious too. She didn't know me and invited me to her house on first meeting?
Turns out, it was legit. We hung out in her hot tub. I didn't get laid though (perhaps the hot tub shy turtle affect ruined it). It was interesting that a single woman in an affluent neighborhood took this type of chance.

If you go, I have one piece of advice. Check your surroundings. If you see signs that a male lives there (or has left 'property' - marking his territory) ... I'd arrange for an "emergency phone call" which would excuse you from the premises. You don't want to end up as her pawn in a jealousy/revenge tactic.

 

[Young OG]

Never had this happen before but I just started messaging a woman today, she gave me her number, i shot her a text a few hours later and she basically seems DTF from the get go.

She asked if I wanted to meet up tonight and I told her I was busy and countered with Thursday. She said that works and asked if I wanted to just come over to her place. Now I know this is pretty much a slam dunk lay unless I screw something up royally but I'm also a little cautious about the whole thing.

I joked that was cool unless she was planning to rob or roofie me and she laughed and said she isn't that type of girl.

Has anyone else had experience with a chick that just gives you a straight invite to her place? She also asked what I drink so I am assuming she will be getting me some alcohol.

Thoughts? Concerns?

I had this happen to me online before. I got her number and when I text her she just invited me to her house. She even said I could stay the night. I didn't bring any cash or cards with me. It turned out to be all good. We drank some alcohol and banged.

 

[MrWood]

Has anyone else had experience with a chick that just gives you a straight invite to her place?

fatty, every time

 

[dr.harker]

Had that same thing happen a few times lately. Played along with the text game for a while. But finally when they begged I told them there is no such thing as a chick that desperate to bone a stranger. But that prosties with pimp boyfriends like to rob good h@rney dudes.

One chick never wrote back. The other told me to F myself. I assume I was talking to a dude, both times. What rule of the internet is that? “It’s always a guy”. LOL.

 

[Hal9000]

Guys get robbed, and worse, via this exact scenario almost every day. Meet her in public and then use good judgment. Any time I go to a woman's place the first time I keep my guard up.

 

[Black Widow Void]

fatty, every time

Not "every time."
The gal that invited me over was no hottie (I'd say average looking / avg weight) but she also wasn't fat.

 

[biggoal]

Guys get robbed, and worse, via this exact scenario almost every day. Meet her in public and then use good judgment. Any time I go to a woman's place the first time I keep my guard up.

The joys of OLD. Just tonight on Zoosk came across an HB7, decent looking and straight up on her profile admits she has herpes and move along if you can't deal with that and the lack of sex in a relationship. Man, OLD really is sinking to new lows.

 

[zinc4]

Never had this happen before but I just started messaging a woman today, she gave me her number, i shot her a text a few hours later and she basically seems DTF from the get go.

She asked if I wanted to meet up tonight and I told her I was busy and countered with Thursday. She said that works and asked if I wanted to just come over to her place. Now I know this is pretty much a slam dunk lay unless I screw something up royally but I'm also a little cautious about the whole thing.

I joked that was cool unless she was planning to rob or roofie me and she laughed and said she isn't that type of girl.

Has anyone else had experience with a chick that just gives you a straight invite to her place? She also asked what I drink so I am assuming she will be getting me some alcohol.

Thoughts? Concerns?

I have done this before successfully...if she is horny and think you look good enough ofcourse it can be legit. Depends on how good looking of a guy you are honestly.

If you are in the US though, I'd suggest to meet outside first near her place just to be safe. Online muggings do in fact happen.

 

[zinc4]

The joys of OLD. Just tonight on Zoosk came across an HB7, decent looking and straight up on her profile admits she has herpes and move along if you can't deal with that and the lack of sex in a relationship. Man, OLD really is sinking to new lows.

Lmfao....I'm a strong proud independent woman with herpes. If you aren't man enough to handle it then **** you I'll find plenty of simps who are.

These OLD women are outrageous man. Hahaha....a lot of fatties say that line too.

 

[biggoal]

Lmfao....I'm a strong proud independent woman with herpes. If you aren't man enough to handle it then **** you I'll find plenty of simps who are.

These OLD women are outrageous man. Hahaha....a lot of fatties say that line too.

Lol yea. And like I said even the last 6 months these old women have even gotten worse. Even less decent women on old now so they're really getting outrageous now like what I posted above from a profile. It really has sunk.

 

[MrWood]

And like I said even the last 6 months these old women have even gotten worse. Even less decent women on old now so they're really getting outrageous now like what I posted above from a profile. It really has sunk.

you are saying the same thing for 2 months now

stop, please

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Never had this happen before but I just started messaging a woman today, she gave me her number, i shot her a text a few hours later and she basically seems DTF from the get go.

She asked if I wanted to meet up tonight and I told her I was busy and countered with Thursday. She said that works and asked if I wanted to just come over to her place. Now I know this is pretty much a slam dunk lay unless I screw something up royally but I'm also a little cautious about the whole thing.

I joked that was cool unless she was planning to rob or roofie me and she laughed and said she isn't that type of girl.

Has anyone else had experience with a chick that just gives you a straight invite to her place? She also asked what I drink so I am assuming she will be getting me some alcohol.

Thoughts? Concerns?

Suggest drinks 1st

You don't want the American history x treatment.

I pulled a girl. If 8 didn't already know her via cold aprroach pickup, I'd be creeped out.

Every door was shut. Lights were dim. Anybody else could be present. Women are slutty today. It's full blown degeneracy.

Enjoy.

 

[KindredSpiritzz]

I had this happen twice in the past 4 months, both times we were naked and in the sack within 30 minutes of me arriving and both were decent looking, no surprises. If you build a good repour in text, talk on the phone and they are sure of what you look like then some seem to be open to getting right down to business. Its no different I suppose then you inviting them to your place for a first date. I have had 3 or 4 that came to my house first date, 2 of which I bagged. I'd go for it myself but trust your gut instinct if something seems off

 

[MatureDJ]

Sounds like a setup for robbery. Never meet at someone's place for first date. We've had that here in fl someone meeting for first time in private place off old and robbed

Yes, the best way to avoid being a victim is make yourself a much harder victim than the next guy - i.e., the evolutionary equivalent of not being the slowest in the herd. To paraphase Groucho Marx, I can't fathom any woman I'd want to pork being so easy to pork. Or alternatively, I would only be interested in a woman that is attractive enough that she could make more money with no chance of prison as a stripper/hoar.

 

[MatureDJ]

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