"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girl next door

AllmightyJON

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There's a girl who just moved in near my house and I would say she's like a 7 or 8. When I got home from work I saw her hanging out with my group of friends and thought "YES!!", but what would be a good way of handling this situation, and making sure she doesn't end up in the hands of one of my buddies? Also, what tips do u have on keeping myself from getting a hardy whilst talking to her?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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for me go over ther, grab her arms, drag her to the side then introduce myself & ask for her name.
 

Omega

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She lives basically right beside you, so when you see her outside alone, go and talk to her. You could also talk to her with your friends but they'd most likely be a ****block from hell.
 

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I would say that you should make sure that you stand out more than the rest of your friends. You live next to her, so you probably have the best chances out of anyone in your group. Not sure how to answer the second question lol.
 

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They answered your question, but if you're really serious about the hardy question, I don't know man, WTF. Beat off beforehand or something.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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