"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girl next door

AllmightyJON

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There's a girl who just moved in near my house and I would say she's like a 7 or 8. When I got home from work I saw her hanging out with my group of friends and thought "YES!!", but what would be a good way of handling this situation, and making sure she doesn't end up in the hands of one of my buddies? Also, what tips do u have on keeping myself from getting a hardy whilst talking to her?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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bubbles

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for me go over ther, grab her arms, drag her to the side then introduce myself & ask for her name.
 

Omega

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She lives basically right beside you, so when you see her outside alone, go and talk to her. You could also talk to her with your friends but they'd most likely be a ****block from hell.
 

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I would say that you should make sure that you stand out more than the rest of your friends. You live next to her, so you probably have the best chances out of anyone in your group. Not sure how to answer the second question lol.
 

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They answered your question, but if you're really serious about the hardy question, I don't know man, WTF. Beat off beforehand or something.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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