"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girl never texts first always responds.

nmartinez12443

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Been 4 weeks. I'm 38 the girl is 24. She works at Hooters solid 8. We met at a bar had sex. Went out 3 other times sex and chemistry everytime. We have a date Thursday, but she NEVER texts first (sign of low interest)

Though she keeps the conversation going and thats a sign of interest. I also pay for nearly everything, though our dates have basically been getting drinks nothing expensive. She never offers to pay. Her guy friend calls me her bf in her phone I snuck a peak.

1. Do I wait a few days and see if she initiates?

2. Kept things going as is?

Thoughts on these types of girls?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Gamisch

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Feminine energy from your side. But yeah , if she never initiates her interest probably isn't that high, but why does that matters now? You banging, right?

Dont worry as long as there are actual dates and she doesn't flake . Dont worry to pay as long as you get your **** wet by her. Hooters you say? doesn't sound like wife / gf material, right?

And dude, that age gap...dont expect anything from a girl like this. Ofcourse she has other dudes lined up!

Been there , I am your age had a girl 13 years younger and fell in love after 6 months, and that was when everything ended...

Just enjoy your turn, only text to set up dates. Start looking for other women who are more responsive if that's what you're looking for, and use this 24y.o hb as (confidence)leverage to get these other chicks.

Women like this are soon to be broken , you wont be able to save her anyway.
 

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@Gamisch articulated it well. Don’t make a problem where there isn’t one and don’t fall in love. If you start expecting more than what it is, it’ll be over sooner than it was going to be anyway.

If you can stay at arms length and maintain your cool, you might be able to squeeze more out of her.
 

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If she never initiates hangouts or sex, but is always available to, then it's not an issue.

Not all women take the initiative.

I would personally get annoyed if they didn't offer to take the check or at least pay for themselves. But considering the age gap...her paying would be a bit weird.
 

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Been 4 weeks. I'm 38 the girl is 24. She works at Hooters solid 8. We met at a bar had sex. Went out 3 other times sex and chemistry everytime. We have a date Thursday, but she NEVER texts first (sign of low interest)

Though she keeps the conversation going and thats a sign of interest. I also pay for nearly everything, though our dates have basically been getting drinks nothing expensive. She never offers to pay. Her guy friend calls me her bf in her phone I snuck a peak.

1. Do I wait a few days and see if she initiates?

2. Kept things going as is?

Thoughts on these types of girls?
A 24 year old 8 with whom you have great chemistry and sex on demand who is content to have inexpensive drinks with you, and yet you’re flipping out because she never texts first?

Come on,man.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BackInTheGame78

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So she meets you and fvcks you every time which is the ultimate sign of interest and you are worried she has low interest because she doesn't text first?

C'mon man...where do people come up with this nonsense?
 

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The novelty of banging a younger chick is getting to you bro. There’s a hint of oneitis in this one. Back off a little & enjoy the goods whilst it’s there. She’s not staying forever. Don’t worry about the texting, she’s enjoying the booty call. Go with the flow my friend.
 

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As long as you keep having sex dont overthink the other stuff and enjoy the ride as long as it lasts. Plate her until she drops.
 

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Been 4 weeks. I'm 38 the girl is 24. She works at Hooters solid 8. We met at a bar had sex. Went out 3 other times sex and chemistry everytime. We have a date Thursday, but she NEVER texts first (sign of low interest)

Though she keeps the conversation going and thats a sign of interest. I also pay for nearly everything, though our dates have basically been getting drinks nothing expensive. She never offers to pay. Her guy friend calls me her bf in her phone I snuck a peak.

1. Do I wait a few days and see if she initiates?

2. Kept things going as is?

Thoughts on these types of girls?
She's probably following some kind of a rule that she read in some stupid book like "The Rules" that says "never text a man first".
That indicates a tendency for being manipulative and a very low IQ.
 
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