"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girl might not have refused kiss, if there wasn't company at home

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We were cuddling on the couch on date 2, but she could hear my roommate in his room and resisted my kiss.

Is there any chance to pull it off on date 3, if we're completely in private?
How soon to the beginning of the date should I attempt? Should I not take her to any other locations first, besides my house?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I don't think that had anything to do with it. If she wanted to kiss you, she'd have kissed you regardless. Hell, a woman would bang you with your friends in the room of she likes you.

She's either using anti slut defense, or is getting close to ljbf.
 
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AllDay85 said:
I don't think that had anything to do with it. If she wanted to kiss you, she'd have kissed you regardless. Hell, a woman would bang you with your friends in the room of she likes you.
She's either using anti slut defense, or is getting close to ljbf.
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Agreed, I've dated plenty of girls to know that if they want something they won't let anything get in the way. If a girl was into me she had no problem with PDA or anything public because she was ecstatic to be with me and wanted to show that off.
 
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These are some stupid excuses. You are not the only one that is doing it. It's a simple way to reason why something didn't went as we planned or wanted to be.
If you want to escape from it , stop thinking about it and have more options. If you do it ,you will be on the right way.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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mental blockstack said:
We were cuddling on the couch on date 2, but she could hear my roommate in his room and resisted my kiss.

Is there any chance to pull it off on date 3, if we're completely in private?
How soon to the beginning of the date should I attempt? Should I not take her to any other locations first, besides my house?
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You're rationalising her behaviour. Bottom line her actions.........without rationalising them or analysing them.....

........do her actions appear to be the actions of someone with high interest level???

If you give the bytch an opportunity for a 3rd meet......go for the kiss within the first 20 minutes.....
ask her how good of a kisser she is......

Toss her if you don't get what YOU want.
 
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