Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girl might not have refused kiss, if there wasn't company at home

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We were cuddling on the couch on date 2, but she could hear my roommate in his room and resisted my kiss.

Is there any chance to pull it off on date 3, if we're completely in private?
How soon to the beginning of the date should I attempt? Should I not take her to any other locations first, besides my house?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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AllDay85

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I don't think that had anything to do with it. If she wanted to kiss you, she'd have kissed you regardless. Hell, a woman would bang you with your friends in the room of she likes you.

She's either using anti slut defense, or is getting close to ljbf.
 

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I don't think that had anything to do with it. If she wanted to kiss you, she'd have kissed you regardless. Hell, a woman would bang you with your friends in the room of she likes you.
She's either using anti slut defense, or is getting close to ljbf.
Agreed, I've dated plenty of girls to know that if they want something they won't let anything get in the way. If a girl was into me she had no problem with PDA or anything public because she was ecstatic to be with me and wanted to show that off.
 

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These are some stupid excuses. You are not the only one that is doing it. It's a simple way to reason why something didn't went as we planned or wanted to be.
If you want to escape from it , stop thinking about it and have more options. If you do it ,you will be on the right way.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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We were cuddling on the couch on date 2, but she could hear my roommate in his room and resisted my kiss.

Is there any chance to pull it off on date 3, if we're completely in private?
How soon to the beginning of the date should I attempt? Should I not take her to any other locations first, besides my house?
You're rationalising her behaviour. Bottom line her actions.........without rationalising them or analysing them.....

........do her actions appear to be the actions of someone with high interest level???

If you give the bytch an opportunity for a 3rd meet......go for the kiss within the first 20 minutes.....
ask her how good of a kisser she is......

Toss her if you don't get what YOU want.
 
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