So there's this girl I've just known, we met once and got along well. One interesting thing I notice is that when I response late to her text, she (almost) always replies with the same interval. And when I respond quickly, she responds quickly too. Do you think this is a sign of interest? Because surely if she sees me as just another guy she wouldn't give any care to the interval of her replies?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Girl matching text response time as mine: sign of interest?
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I believe she knows the game you're playing and is letting you know that. Then she is playing the game back at you. Interesting conundrum I suppose. It would be fun to see what her response is if you fired off several quick, needy texts. I used that method once when I was trying to get rid of a hassle woman. It worked. She got 'tired' of me after a short time and I never heard from her again.
Not saying that is what you're trying to achieve here.
Not saying that is what you're trying to achieve here.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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She read "The Rules".
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She did read the rules.MOTU said:
This happened to me with a girl that would always text exactly 20mins after I would text her.... taking hours and hours to set a date up.
When I finally got her out, I physically escalated and had her aroused, to the point she was all over the road on the way home and couldnt think straight. It was on. But for some reason no matter how many times I tried to kiss her she would pull back. So I just asked why... ?
"No kissing on the first date"
LOL
Things spiraled down from there as she began over analyzing every text I sent.