So there's this girl I've just known, we met once and got along well. One interesting thing I notice is that when I response late to her text, she (almost) always replies with the same interval. And when I respond quickly, she responds quickly too. Do you think this is a sign of interest? Because surely if she sees me as just another guy she wouldn't give any care to the interval of her replies?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Girl matching text response time as mine: sign of interest?
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I believe she knows the game you're playing and is letting you know that. Then she is playing the game back at you. Interesting conundrum I suppose. It would be fun to see what her response is if you fired off several quick, needy texts. I used that method once when I was trying to get rid of a hassle woman. It worked. She got 'tired' of me after a short time and I never heard from her again.
Not saying that is what you're trying to achieve here.
Not saying that is what you're trying to achieve here.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
MOTU
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She read "The Rules".
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She did read the rules.MOTU said:
This happened to me with a girl that would always text exactly 20mins after I would text her.... taking hours and hours to set a date up.
When I finally got her out, I physically escalated and had her aroused, to the point she was all over the road on the way home and couldnt think straight. It was on. But for some reason no matter how many times I tried to kiss her she would pull back. So I just asked why... ?
"No kissing on the first date"
LOL
Things spiraled down from there as she began over analyzing every text I sent.