Another faux pas? In your previous thread, you hung out twice without getting any -- in the expectation that there would be several more dry dates to come -- and also got a indication of low interest in response to a text. My advice is to stop texting, call instead, and make your calls very brief and strictly for the business of setting up the where/when of getting together. Also, fingering is teenagey and impotent. Fingering smacks of trying to sneak or beg your way into sex. If you want to fvck a woman, get her back to your place or her place, and take off her clothes.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Girl mad because I asked her to shave
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Bokanovsky
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Quantity means nothing in the absence of qualityZarky said:
What would you rather have in your garage, one brand new Rolls or 17 rusted out Yugos?I'll take that as an "I haven't gotten laid in a long, long time," beta. Your opinion is worthless, because you're not even able to attract 5s.Bokanovsky said:Quantity means nothing in the absence of quality
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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I will not response....Danger said:
I will not response......
I will not response.....
Serenity now.
No insanity later...........
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lol, this thread is still getting bumps?!
Well done guys, this is good ****.
Well done guys, this is good ****.
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I've gotten laid yesterday, if you must know. And it certainly wasn't a 5. You seem to think that anyone who is disgusted by your dumpster diving ways must be a 40-year-old virgin. Not so.Zarky said: