Another faux pas? In your previous thread, you hung out twice without getting any -- in the expectation that there would be several more dry dates to come -- and also got a indication of low interest in response to a text. My advice is to stop texting, call instead, and make your calls very brief and strictly for the business of setting up the where/when of getting together. Also, fingering is teenagey and impotent. Fingering smacks of trying to sneak or beg your way into sex. If you want to fvck a woman, get her back to your place or her place, and take off her clothes.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Girl mad because I asked her to shave
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Quantity means nothing in the absence of qualityZarky said:
What would you rather have in your garage, one brand new Rolls or 17 rusted out Yugos?I'll take that as an "I haven't gotten laid in a long, long time," beta. Your opinion is worthless, because you're not even able to attract 5s.Bokanovsky said:Quantity means nothing in the absence of quality
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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I will not response....Danger said:
I will not response......
I will not response.....
Serenity now.
No insanity later...........
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lol, this thread is still getting bumps?!
Well done guys, this is good ****.
Well done guys, this is good ****.
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I've gotten laid yesterday, if you must know. And it certainly wasn't a 5. You seem to think that anyone who is disgusted by your dumpster diving ways must be a 40-year-old virgin. Not so.Zarky said: