“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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espanish

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my friend is in a situation that is not making sense to me. he lives in usa and he is looking to get married. due to money problems, no girl in the usa wants him. he can afford to pay the rent and buy food, but that's it. so he got an online dating profile and after a long time he matched with this girl in south america. to protect his privacy I am not going to mention which country. he chatted and did video calls with the girl for 3 months and finally last month he went to her country to see her. I was concerned about drug cartels kidnapping him, you know the usual concerns, what if there is no girl and this is just a trap? but to my surprise, he came back. he loves the girl and considers her his girlfriend. now the girl is moving to usa soon and they want to get married. what I don't understand is why would this girl waste her time with a guy 3000 miles away? are there no guys in her own country for her? i've seen her pictures, it doesn't appear that there is anything wrong with her, she is not fat, she is not bald, she doesn't have some weird mole on her face. doesn't make sense to me.
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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This is a bad idea. Your USA friend needs to drop his standards in the USA. He needs to date Walmart or McDonald's cashiers.
 

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We do need info on the country, imo it's relevant here.
 

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Maybe it's a combo of her not being hot for her country, and also wanting a better and safer lifestyle
 
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