"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I approached a girl in a store with, "Hey, I saw you and think you're cute, so, I came to say hi". I was a little nervous when I said it so it didn't come out well. So, I repeated it, then she was like "oh", then ran out of the store :D.

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For some strange reason, that got me in a really happy mood, then I did 3 more approaches. Got an email success.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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D.J. King Allister said:
I approached a girl in a store with, "Hey, I saw you and think you're cute, so, I came to say hi". I was a little nervous when I said it so it didn't come out well. So, I repeated it, then she was like "oh", then ran out of the store :D.

For some strange reason, that got me in a really happy mood, then I approached a bit more. Got an email success.

You got "one" email "success" because you only had ONE picture up. Now you have three. Sitting, standing, doing nothing interesting.

I tell you dudes to do one thing. And most do exactly the opposite of what I laid out in the POF number grabs thread.

You need to put up your most interesting, best looking pictures. The ones you have are "ok" but not standing out. Lift some good ones off of your FB or from pictures taken of you.

Everything is done but you've already spammed half the site with everything else.

Once you get a few meets you'll have to see how it goes with your situation you explained to me. To be honest most of those chicks are not only nutjobs, slvts etc. But will look to "disqualify" you for any reason should you not look up to their "standards".
 
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You got "one" email "success" because you only had ONE picture up. Now you have three. Sitting, standing, doing nothing interesting.

I tell you dudes to do one thing. And most do exactly the opposite of what I laid out in the POF number grabs thread.

You need to put up your most interesting, best looking pictures. The ones you have are "ok" but not standing out. Lift some good ones off of your FB or from pictures taken of you.

Everything is done but you've already spammed half the site with everything else.

Once you get a few meets you'll have to see how it goes with your situation you explained to me. To be honest most of those chicks are not only nutjobs, slvts etc. But will look to "disqualify" you for any reason should you not look up to their "standards".
This isn't about pof lol. This happened while I was out, cold approaching.
 

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D.J. King Allister said:
This isn't about pof lol. This happened while I was out, cold approaching.
So why did you mention one email success? As she ran out of the store did you manage to view the email address she left at the store for fashion updates and consider it a score?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NAUGHTYNINJA seems very confused lol
1) he never mentioned POF
2) he did 3 approaches in total
3) one of the girls he approached run away scared
4) one of the next approaches gave him an email address

this guy is using basic "david deangelo" techniques
"hey I saw you, I wanted to talk to you" and "getting the email" technique

which is easier to ask for and lower risk than a phone number
good luck!
 

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"Hey, I saw you and think you're cute, so, I came to say hi"

A simple "hi" would be a lot better line. You can tell within the next two seconds if she wants to talk to you or not.
 

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Most men starting out have no idea how abysmally weak women's self esteem often is. This is why we have to 'calibrate" our approach, or risk having the girl (not 'woman', really) run away crying. These girls have child-like levels of confidence/self esteem/inner game, what have you. They are SO far below the average man's that it's impossible for us to relate.
 

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pipe007 said:
NAUGHTYNINJA seems very confused lol
1) he never mentioned POF
2) he did 3 approaches in total
3) one of the girls he approached run away scared
4) one of the next approaches gave him an email address

this guy is using basic "david deangelo" techniques
"hey I saw you, I wanted to talk to you" and "getting the email" technique

which is easier to ask for and lower risk than a phone number
good luck!

LMAO! No. I was looking at his pof at the same time as reading his post and saw one message in his inbox and thought he was talking about an "email success" due to him getting a reply on there. Hahahaha!!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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pipe007 said:
this guy is using basic "david deangelo" techniques
"hey I saw you, I wanted to talk to you" and "getting the email" technique

which is easier to ask for and lower risk than a phone number
good luck!

I did went for a number close. She would only give an email due to us being strangers lol.
 

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I can see them running out like that if you did the approach in a liquor store.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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