"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

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I approached a girl in a store with, "Hey, I saw you and think you're cute, so, I came to say hi". I was a little nervous when I said it so it didn't come out well. So, I repeated it, then she was like "oh", then ran out of the store :D.

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For some strange reason, that got me in a really happy mood, then I did 3 more approaches. Got an email success.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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D.J. King Allister said:
I approached a girl in a store with, "Hey, I saw you and think you're cute, so, I came to say hi". I was a little nervous when I said it so it didn't come out well. So, I repeated it, then she was like "oh", then ran out of the store :D.

For some strange reason, that got me in a really happy mood, then I approached a bit more. Got an email success.

You got "one" email "success" because you only had ONE picture up. Now you have three. Sitting, standing, doing nothing interesting.

I tell you dudes to do one thing. And most do exactly the opposite of what I laid out in the POF number grabs thread.

You need to put up your most interesting, best looking pictures. The ones you have are "ok" but not standing out. Lift some good ones off of your FB or from pictures taken of you.

Everything is done but you've already spammed half the site with everything else.

Once you get a few meets you'll have to see how it goes with your situation you explained to me. To be honest most of those chicks are not only nutjobs, slvts etc. But will look to "disqualify" you for any reason should you not look up to their "standards".
 
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You got "one" email "success" because you only had ONE picture up. Now you have three. Sitting, standing, doing nothing interesting.

I tell you dudes to do one thing. And most do exactly the opposite of what I laid out in the POF number grabs thread.

You need to put up your most interesting, best looking pictures. The ones you have are "ok" but not standing out. Lift some good ones off of your FB or from pictures taken of you.

Everything is done but you've already spammed half the site with everything else.

Once you get a few meets you'll have to see how it goes with your situation you explained to me. To be honest most of those chicks are not only nutjobs, slvts etc. But will look to "disqualify" you for any reason should you not look up to their "standards".
This isn't about pof lol. This happened while I was out, cold approaching.
 

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D.J. King Allister said:
This isn't about pof lol. This happened while I was out, cold approaching.
So why did you mention one email success? As she ran out of the store did you manage to view the email address she left at the store for fashion updates and consider it a score?
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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NAUGHTYNINJA seems very confused lol
1) he never mentioned POF
2) he did 3 approaches in total
3) one of the girls he approached run away scared
4) one of the next approaches gave him an email address

this guy is using basic "david deangelo" techniques
"hey I saw you, I wanted to talk to you" and "getting the email" technique

which is easier to ask for and lower risk than a phone number
good luck!
 

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"Hey, I saw you and think you're cute, so, I came to say hi"

A simple "hi" would be a lot better line. You can tell within the next two seconds if she wants to talk to you or not.
 

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Most men starting out have no idea how abysmally weak women's self esteem often is. This is why we have to 'calibrate" our approach, or risk having the girl (not 'woman', really) run away crying. These girls have child-like levels of confidence/self esteem/inner game, what have you. They are SO far below the average man's that it's impossible for us to relate.
 

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pipe007 said:
NAUGHTYNINJA seems very confused lol
1) he never mentioned POF
2) he did 3 approaches in total
3) one of the girls he approached run away scared
4) one of the next approaches gave him an email address

this guy is using basic "david deangelo" techniques
"hey I saw you, I wanted to talk to you" and "getting the email" technique

which is easier to ask for and lower risk than a phone number
good luck!

LMAO! No. I was looking at his pof at the same time as reading his post and saw one message in his inbox and thought he was talking about an "email success" due to him getting a reply on there. Hahahaha!!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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pipe007 said:
this guy is using basic "david deangelo" techniques
"hey I saw you, I wanted to talk to you" and "getting the email" technique

which is easier to ask for and lower risk than a phone number
good luck!

I did went for a number close. She would only give an email due to us being strangers lol.
 

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I can see them running out like that if you did the approach in a liquor store.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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