"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I approached a girl in a store with, "Hey, I saw you and think you're cute, so, I came to say hi". I was a little nervous when I said it so it didn't come out well. So, I repeated it, then she was like "oh", then ran out of the store :D.

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For some strange reason, that got me in a really happy mood, then I did 3 more approaches. Got an email success.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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D.J. King Allister said:
I approached a girl in a store with, "Hey, I saw you and think you're cute, so, I came to say hi". I was a little nervous when I said it so it didn't come out well. So, I repeated it, then she was like "oh", then ran out of the store :D.

For some strange reason, that got me in a really happy mood, then I approached a bit more. Got an email success.

You got "one" email "success" because you only had ONE picture up. Now you have three. Sitting, standing, doing nothing interesting.

I tell you dudes to do one thing. And most do exactly the opposite of what I laid out in the POF number grabs thread.

You need to put up your most interesting, best looking pictures. The ones you have are "ok" but not standing out. Lift some good ones off of your FB or from pictures taken of you.

Everything is done but you've already spammed half the site with everything else.

Once you get a few meets you'll have to see how it goes with your situation you explained to me. To be honest most of those chicks are not only nutjobs, slvts etc. But will look to "disqualify" you for any reason should you not look up to their "standards".
 
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You got "one" email "success" because you only had ONE picture up. Now you have three. Sitting, standing, doing nothing interesting.

I tell you dudes to do one thing. And most do exactly the opposite of what I laid out in the POF number grabs thread.

You need to put up your most interesting, best looking pictures. The ones you have are "ok" but not standing out. Lift some good ones off of your FB or from pictures taken of you.

Everything is done but you've already spammed half the site with everything else.

Once you get a few meets you'll have to see how it goes with your situation you explained to me. To be honest most of those chicks are not only nutjobs, slvts etc. But will look to "disqualify" you for any reason should you not look up to their "standards".
This isn't about pof lol. This happened while I was out, cold approaching.
 

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D.J. King Allister said:
This isn't about pof lol. This happened while I was out, cold approaching.
So why did you mention one email success? As she ran out of the store did you manage to view the email address she left at the store for fashion updates and consider it a score?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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NAUGHTYNINJA seems very confused lol
1) he never mentioned POF
2) he did 3 approaches in total
3) one of the girls he approached run away scared
4) one of the next approaches gave him an email address

this guy is using basic "david deangelo" techniques
"hey I saw you, I wanted to talk to you" and "getting the email" technique

which is easier to ask for and lower risk than a phone number
good luck!
 

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"Hey, I saw you and think you're cute, so, I came to say hi"

A simple "hi" would be a lot better line. You can tell within the next two seconds if she wants to talk to you or not.
 

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Most men starting out have no idea how abysmally weak women's self esteem often is. This is why we have to 'calibrate" our approach, or risk having the girl (not 'woman', really) run away crying. These girls have child-like levels of confidence/self esteem/inner game, what have you. They are SO far below the average man's that it's impossible for us to relate.
 

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pipe007 said:
NAUGHTYNINJA seems very confused lol
1) he never mentioned POF
2) he did 3 approaches in total
3) one of the girls he approached run away scared
4) one of the next approaches gave him an email address

this guy is using basic "david deangelo" techniques
"hey I saw you, I wanted to talk to you" and "getting the email" technique

which is easier to ask for and lower risk than a phone number
good luck!

LMAO! No. I was looking at his pof at the same time as reading his post and saw one message in his inbox and thought he was talking about an "email success" due to him getting a reply on there. Hahahaha!!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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pipe007 said:
this guy is using basic "david deangelo" techniques
"hey I saw you, I wanted to talk to you" and "getting the email" technique

which is easier to ask for and lower risk than a phone number
good luck!

I did went for a number close. She would only give an email due to us being strangers lol.
 

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I can see them running out like that if you did the approach in a liquor store.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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