"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girl literally leaves expecting someone else to pay.

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Here we are a medium sized group of us, same bunch of entitled HB 6.5's inching up in their early 30's with ****ty smeared on makeup expecting some chump to pay for her meal.

The sad thing is there was a chump willing to do this, as me and my other friend were shaming this chump at the exit, this man child paid for this old hags food and gave us all a ride home.

I'm not sure what is more sad the sheer entitlement of a 30 year old hag hb 6.5 with ****ty dollar store makeup on expecting someone to pick up her tab ...

or my good friend Abdi whom was willing to pick up the tab, not so much as get a thank you, and drive us all home. ... I was in the car ... I heard no thank you's.

Men... It's a sad sad world we live in
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That guy is to males what a cheap slvt is to women, basically someone who take down the value of his kind while spoiling the other.

Thank god day after day I hear and see more and more guys saying fvck it...too bad an entire generation got screwed up.
 

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Abdi sounds like he is Ugoslavian. A lot of women from my country expect the man who invited them to pay. It's in the west things are 50/50 and sometimes I heard women even pay for the date and pick up men. In the east if you take woman out you are paying for her. If that's the case and Abdi is Ugoslavian then he did what is right in his culture.
 

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Abdi sounds like he is Ugoslavian. A lot of women from my country expect the man who invited them to pay. It's in the west things are 50/50 and sometimes I heard women even pay for the date and pick up men. In the east if you take woman out you are paying for her. If that's the case and Abdi is Ugoslavian then he did what is right in his culture.
I banged this chick on NYE

I don't give her rides or buy her food

Abdi doesn't bang this chick. She owns a little shyt dog that kisses everyone and Abdi is Muslim and vocally told me about how he hates dogs.

I can't imagine him in her apartment..

That being said ... Thanks Abdi but Poor Abdi
 

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Same with muslims man, and armenians and dagestanians (khabib) for that matter, they would go out of their way to pay. Banging or not banging is another matter. Abdi doesn't perceive this world the way you perceive it. Yes poor Abdi, agreed.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Same with muslims man, and armenians and dagestanians (khabib) for that matter, they would go out of their way to pay. Banging or not banging is another matter. Abdi doesn't perceive this world the way you perceive it. Yes poor Abdi, agreed.
“Culture” is exactly the problem. Single men and women make the same amount of money for the same work, and all single women work these days. If the man pays, the implication is that his time is worth less than hers, and that he must therefore pay for the meal to make up for it.
 

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“Culture” is exactly the problem. Single men and women make the same amount of money for the same work, and all single women work these days. If the man pays, the implication is that his time is worth less than hers, and that he must therefore pay for the meal to make up for it.
Agreed
 

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Did he pay for the whole table or just the girl's? I know guys who like to pick up checks, but they like to pay for everybody's. It's their good deed for the day, I guess.
 
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