"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girl literally leaves expecting someone else to pay.

MillionBillionaire

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Here we are a medium sized group of us, same bunch of entitled HB 6.5's inching up in their early 30's with ****ty smeared on makeup expecting some chump to pay for her meal.

The sad thing is there was a chump willing to do this, as me and my other friend were shaming this chump at the exit, this man child paid for this old hags food and gave us all a ride home.

I'm not sure what is more sad the sheer entitlement of a 30 year old hag hb 6.5 with ****ty dollar store makeup on expecting someone to pick up her tab ...

or my good friend Abdi whom was willing to pick up the tab, not so much as get a thank you, and drive us all home. ... I was in the car ... I heard no thank you's.

Men... It's a sad sad world we live in
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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That guy is to males what a cheap slvt is to women, basically someone who take down the value of his kind while spoiling the other.

Thank god day after day I hear and see more and more guys saying fvck it...too bad an entire generation got screwed up.
 

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Abdi sounds like he is Ugoslavian. A lot of women from my country expect the man who invited them to pay. It's in the west things are 50/50 and sometimes I heard women even pay for the date and pick up men. In the east if you take woman out you are paying for her. If that's the case and Abdi is Ugoslavian then he did what is right in his culture.
 

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Abdi sounds like he is Ugoslavian. A lot of women from my country expect the man who invited them to pay. It's in the west things are 50/50 and sometimes I heard women even pay for the date and pick up men. In the east if you take woman out you are paying for her. If that's the case and Abdi is Ugoslavian then he did what is right in his culture.
I banged this chick on NYE

I don't give her rides or buy her food

Abdi doesn't bang this chick. She owns a little shyt dog that kisses everyone and Abdi is Muslim and vocally told me about how he hates dogs.

I can't imagine him in her apartment..

That being said ... Thanks Abdi but Poor Abdi
 

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Same with muslims man, and armenians and dagestanians (khabib) for that matter, they would go out of their way to pay. Banging or not banging is another matter. Abdi doesn't perceive this world the way you perceive it. Yes poor Abdi, agreed.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Same with muslims man, and armenians and dagestanians (khabib) for that matter, they would go out of their way to pay. Banging or not banging is another matter. Abdi doesn't perceive this world the way you perceive it. Yes poor Abdi, agreed.
“Culture” is exactly the problem. Single men and women make the same amount of money for the same work, and all single women work these days. If the man pays, the implication is that his time is worth less than hers, and that he must therefore pay for the meal to make up for it.
 

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“Culture” is exactly the problem. Single men and women make the same amount of money for the same work, and all single women work these days. If the man pays, the implication is that his time is worth less than hers, and that he must therefore pay for the meal to make up for it.
Agreed
 

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Did he pay for the whole table or just the girl's? I know guys who like to pick up checks, but they like to pay for everybody's. It's their good deed for the day, I guess.
 
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