Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girl leaving. Help / advice needed

BeLoSH

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MEN. Long time gamer, I only post on here these days if i have an issue, so here goes.

So i started seeing this chick towards the middle of August. We've been in contact with each other, non-stop since then. Often seeing each other 2/3 times a week.

Everything is fcking great.

BUT......

She recently dropped the bombshell that she's leaving for school. It was mentioned a couple of times in the past, all but brief, but now it's official.
She'll be gone for 2 years.

She now wants to ease up as she could be gone as soon as February or even January, however no later than April.
She's made her mind up and she's going.

I have a history of bad onetitis which i think is making things 10x worse.




My question is this. Do you think it's best if i just stop seeing her now or continue to do so until she leaves?

Head is up my backside over this one.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Purefilth

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I was with a girl who had to leave, I left her, then went back to her all before she left.

Make the most of the time you have, but hold back from getting too close, you've only been with her a couple of months so hopefully you'll have enough self control to take it for what it is - a bit of winter lovin'
 

Greasy Pig

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My last LTR decided to move to London but we decided to keep seeing each other for the last three months or so before she left.
I didn't really care that she was leaving (it was actually a good thing) so we just had fun, had a teary goodbye and she left.
It was probably the best three months of the whole year-long relationship.
 

GotED?

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May I remind you of one of the most important point of being a DJ and from this forum is:

REMAIN EMOTIONALLY DETACHED ALWAYS!!!!!


Focus on that and you will be carried through any storm that women/girls throw at you unexpectedly and not fall into the trenches of AFC graves.

With respect,

Exodus
 
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