"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girl leaving. Help / advice needed

BeLoSH

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MEN. Long time gamer, I only post on here these days if i have an issue, so here goes.

So i started seeing this chick towards the middle of August. We've been in contact with each other, non-stop since then. Often seeing each other 2/3 times a week.

Everything is fcking great.

BUT......

She recently dropped the bombshell that she's leaving for school. It was mentioned a couple of times in the past, all but brief, but now it's official.
She'll be gone for 2 years.

She now wants to ease up as she could be gone as soon as February or even January, however no later than April.
She's made her mind up and she's going.

I have a history of bad onetitis which i think is making things 10x worse.




My question is this. Do you think it's best if i just stop seeing her now or continue to do so until she leaves?

Head is up my backside over this one.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Purefilth

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I was with a girl who had to leave, I left her, then went back to her all before she left.

Make the most of the time you have, but hold back from getting too close, you've only been with her a couple of months so hopefully you'll have enough self control to take it for what it is - a bit of winter lovin'
 

Greasy Pig

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My last LTR decided to move to London but we decided to keep seeing each other for the last three months or so before she left.
I didn't really care that she was leaving (it was actually a good thing) so we just had fun, had a teary goodbye and she left.
It was probably the best three months of the whole year-long relationship.
 

GotED?

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The Viagra Pill you wish you had...- United Kingdo
May I remind you of one of the most important point of being a DJ and from this forum is:

REMAIN EMOTIONALLY DETACHED ALWAYS!!!!!


Focus on that and you will be carried through any storm that women/girls throw at you unexpectedly and not fall into the trenches of AFC graves.

With respect,

Exodus
 
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