"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Girl keeps saying she is ugly
- Thread starter Prodoge
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Pretty much. Low self concept.
Pretty draining to be around someone like that.
Reeks of deeper psychological struggle.
Tell her none of God's children are ugly. We are made in God's image, why would she insult the Lord like that?
So she thinks baby Jesus is ugly?
Exagerase and tease.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
some girls are just insecure and need to be told they're pretty or else they go crazy
some girls are narcissistic and them insulting themselves is meant to be your cue to worship them like they are your goddess
some girls are into you, and they want you to check them out and if you respond positively, they take that as a good sign (a girl told me this one, she said something like "girls don't send you selfies and ask you how they look if they don't like you!")
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
If a girl says she is ugly and you tell her she is beautiful.. she will friendzone you and go f*ck the guy who agreed that she is ugly.
That's how twisted women's minds can be lol.
True that, nothing would surprise me.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
I think if she legitimately thinks she's ugly, you should compliment her to get into her pants. but if she's merely fishing for attention, you should be like "I know right, what happened to your face?" to get into her pants.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
glass half full
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Been there...
If you compliment her a few times and it does no good, leave her be.