"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Girl keeps saying she is ugly
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Pretty much. Low self concept.
Pretty draining to be around someone like that.
Reeks of deeper psychological struggle.
Tell her none of God's children are ugly. We are made in God's image, why would she insult the Lord like that?
So she thinks baby Jesus is ugly?
Exagerase and tease.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
some girls are just insecure and need to be told they're pretty or else they go crazy
some girls are narcissistic and them insulting themselves is meant to be your cue to worship them like they are your goddess
some girls are into you, and they want you to check them out and if you respond positively, they take that as a good sign (a girl told me this one, she said something like "girls don't send you selfies and ask you how they look if they don't like you!")
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
If a girl says she is ugly and you tell her she is beautiful.. she will friendzone you and go f*ck the guy who agreed that she is ugly.
That's how twisted women's minds can be lol.
True that, nothing would surprise me.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
I think if she legitimately thinks she's ugly, you should compliment her to get into her pants. but if she's merely fishing for attention, you should be like "I know right, what happened to your face?" to get into her pants.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
glass half full
Master Don Juan
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Been there...
If you compliment her a few times and it does no good, leave her be.