"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Girl just broke up with boyfriend
- Thread starter aWolf
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Uncharted
Master Don Juan
You treat her like any other girl. Do you have her number? Call her up and ask her out. If she's interested then she'll go out. If not, then move on.
If she broke up with him then she's ready for someone else (or has possibly already found him). If he broke up with her it will be harder.
Either way you will not know unless you try.
At least put some effort into your thread....aWolf said:
There isn't, she either will or she won't. There isn't a list of tricks you can use. Sounds to me that you're too focused on one individual girl. Snap out of this delusional way of thinking. Get out there, improve yourself, and meet some other girl.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
However, I have managed several times to let a girl go on and on about her recent ex, and then ended up fvcking her. It works as long as you make sure to immediately steer the direction of the relationship toward being physical. She can bawl on my shoulder all she wants, as long as my hand is slowly working its way up her thigh...
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Uncharted
Master Don Juan
This is true. I think the advice on here is to meant to not let girls go on and on and treat you like a girlfriend. You need to make sure she knows that you want a physical relationship (male/lover) and not an emotional one (female/friend). You do this by PHYSICALLY escalating - fearlessly and without apology.Bible_Belt said:
If you think you can't handle this - the best thing to say when she bring up her boyfriend is something like "that sounds like sad talk - let's go have some fun". Then do something exciting - isolate and escalate.