Basically what the title says.
I was on vacation 3 months ago and matched this girl on Bumble. We messaged back and forth and eventually started texting. She said she wanted to come visit me in my hometown...15 hours by car or flying.
We have texted randomly throughout the weeks but I made it clear I dont want a long distance relationship, at all.
I told her at one point, if she ever came to visit, it could be a fun time. Apparently she took that as "I want you to come on x-weekend"...
She went and actually bought plane tickets to come see me over the weekend in 2 weeks. She got an airbnb and a rental car, so thats like several hundred dollars (flight, airbnb, car).
Thing is, it's super awkward, IMO. I feel weird that some girl I've never met face to face is spending so much to see me for a weekend.
No other red flags - she is cute and seems normal-ish, but this whole situation makes the aforementioned go out the window, kind of.
Thoughts? Recommendations? Anyone been in this situation before?
I was on vacation 3 months ago and matched this girl on Bumble. We messaged back and forth and eventually started texting. She said she wanted to come visit me in my hometown...15 hours by car or flying.
We have texted randomly throughout the weeks but I made it clear I dont want a long distance relationship, at all.
I told her at one point, if she ever came to visit, it could be a fun time. Apparently she took that as "I want you to come on x-weekend"...
She went and actually bought plane tickets to come see me over the weekend in 2 weeks. She got an airbnb and a rental car, so thats like several hundred dollars (flight, airbnb, car).
Thing is, it's super awkward, IMO. I feel weird that some girl I've never met face to face is spending so much to see me for a weekend.
No other red flags - she is cute and seems normal-ish, but this whole situation makes the aforementioned go out the window, kind of.
Thoughts? Recommendations? Anyone been in this situation before?