so ive been messing with this girl for about a little over a week now and everything seemed to be going good. I kinda softened up on her a bit when she kept saying she is having bad karma and all the guys she meets are jerks and she just wants a guy that will treat her good. We both did things like bf/gf would she wanted to sleep over my house tonight but i kinda didnt want her too until this morning i changed my mind and i tried calling her but no answer. So finally i called and a guy answers the phone and when i asked for the girl hes like all asking me "who is this" and i tell him im just her friend whos this? And he says "her boyfriend" so im like um ok and he tells me stop callin and hangs up on me. So **** that right now i deleted her number out of my phone but now im thinking what would be the right thing for me to do right now in this situation? If she does call me back do i ignore her? If i did she probably would move on but i want to continue fvcking her and im just wondering what kind of game should i be playing now so she'll still want me.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
girl ive been messin with has a bf?
- Thread starter baurman
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
zzeitgeist
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next her.. if she comes around ask her if she wants to come over if she says no than shes done.. either way don't go stressin over this one girl. next next next..
ready123
Master Don Juan
you sure that wasn't her brother that picked up the phone?
Sounds like she wants to fvck dude. With you, with that guy, and all those jerks she mentioned.. She's a wh0re. She even told you she's a wh0re.
If you want keep banging her don't mention anything about that guy, if she brings it up, tell her it's cool baby, he can entertain you while you're not with me.
You don't need her number, you don't want to be calling her, it's her job. I think it's pretty safe to say you are her fvck buddy, and she is your fvck buddy.
For fvcking, she's alright, if you use protection and be careful. For anything more it's called lowering your standards.
If you want keep banging her don't mention anything about that guy, if she brings it up, tell her it's cool baby, he can entertain you while you're not with me.
You don't need her number, you don't want to be calling her, it's her job. I think it's pretty safe to say you are her fvck buddy, and she is your fvck buddy.
For fvcking, she's alright, if you use protection and be careful. For anything more it's called lowering your standards.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
ready123
Master Don Juan
lol... could've been her dad too