so ive been messing with this girl for about a little over a week now and everything seemed to be going good. I kinda softened up on her a bit when she kept saying she is having bad karma and all the guys she meets are jerks and she just wants a guy that will treat her good. We both did things like bf/gf would she wanted to sleep over my house tonight but i kinda didnt want her too until this morning i changed my mind and i tried calling her but no answer. So finally i called and a guy answers the phone and when i asked for the girl hes like all asking me "who is this" and i tell him im just her friend whos this? And he says "her boyfriend" so im like um ok and he tells me stop callin and hangs up on me. So **** that right now i deleted her number out of my phone but now im thinking what would be the right thing for me to do right now in this situation? If she does call me back do i ignore her? If i did she probably would move on but i want to continue fvcking her and im just wondering what kind of game should i be playing now so she'll still want me.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
girl ive been messin with has a bf?
- Thread starter baurman
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
zzeitgeist
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next her.. if she comes around ask her if she wants to come over if she says no than shes done.. either way don't go stressin over this one girl. next next next..
ready123
Master Don Juan
you sure that wasn't her brother that picked up the phone?
Sounds like she wants to fvck dude. With you, with that guy, and all those jerks she mentioned.. She's a wh0re. She even told you she's a wh0re.
If you want keep banging her don't mention anything about that guy, if she brings it up, tell her it's cool baby, he can entertain you while you're not with me.
You don't need her number, you don't want to be calling her, it's her job. I think it's pretty safe to say you are her fvck buddy, and she is your fvck buddy.
For fvcking, she's alright, if you use protection and be careful. For anything more it's called lowering your standards.
If you want keep banging her don't mention anything about that guy, if she brings it up, tell her it's cool baby, he can entertain you while you're not with me.
You don't need her number, you don't want to be calling her, it's her job. I think it's pretty safe to say you are her fvck buddy, and she is your fvck buddy.
For fvcking, she's alright, if you use protection and be careful. For anything more it's called lowering your standards.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ready123
Master Don Juan
lol... could've been her dad too