Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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girl ive been messin with has a bf?

baurman

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so ive been messing with this girl for about a little over a week now and everything seemed to be going good. I kinda softened up on her a bit when she kept saying she is having bad karma and all the guys she meets are jerks and she just wants a guy that will treat her good. We both did things like bf/gf would she wanted to sleep over my house tonight but i kinda didnt want her too until this morning i changed my mind and i tried calling her but no answer. So finally i called and a guy answers the phone and when i asked for the girl hes like all asking me "who is this" and i tell him im just her friend whos this? And he says "her boyfriend" so im like um ok and he tells me stop callin and hangs up on me. So **** that right now i deleted her number out of my phone but now im thinking what would be the right thing for me to do right now in this situation? If she does call me back do i ignore her? If i did she probably would move on but i want to continue fvcking her and im just wondering what kind of game should i be playing now so she'll still want me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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zzeitgeist

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next her.. if she comes around ask her if she wants to come over if she says no than shes done.. either way don't go stressin over this one girl. next next next..
 

ready123

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you sure that wasn't her brother that picked up the phone?
 

Mr. Wolf

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Sounds like she wants to fvck dude. With you, with that guy, and all those jerks she mentioned.. She's a wh0re. She even told you she's a wh0re.

If you want keep banging her don't mention anything about that guy, if she brings it up, tell her it's cool baby, he can entertain you while you're not with me.

You don't need her number, you don't want to be calling her, it's her job. I think it's pretty safe to say you are her fvck buddy, and she is your fvck buddy.

For fvcking, she's alright, if you use protection and be careful. For anything more it's called lowering your standards.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Bat

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You want to get laid. She wants to lay you. I don't see the problem.

Like Wolf said, if you want anything more, then you're lowering your standards.
 

ready123

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lol... could've been her dad too
 

jdawgmcb

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boyfriends are just another hurdle to jump through to get to the finish.
 
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