"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl is probably thinking I am using her, however I want to ask her out

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I'm in a bit of a dilemma

-Asked girl to lend me notes/exams from a class she took
-She says yes, but sounds irritated
-I like her, want to ask her out
-She probably thinks I am using her
-This is because I have asked her to copy her lab before, and she said "'All u do is use me!"
-I really want her notes/exams from that class (good study material), I need them bad lol, but don't want to seem like I am using her
-I will be seeing her tomorrow, which is when she will give me the materials

What should I do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you're always borrowing her notes, she probably thinks you're a doofus who never takes notes and sleeps through class. Or she thinks you take bad notes. How about this line " "Let me take you out for a drink to say thanks for the loan of the notes." After that, let your sarging abilities take over.
 
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evasive said:
I'm in a bit of a dilemma

-Asked girl to lend me notes/exams from a class she took
-She says yes, but sounds irritated
-I like her, want to ask her out
-She probably thinks I am using her
-This is because I have asked her to copy her lab before, and she said "'All u do is use me!"
-I really want her notes/exams from that class (good study material), I need them bad lol, but don't want to seem like I am using her
-I will be seeing her tomorrow, which is when she will give me the materials

What should I do?
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She's perhaps irritated because she knows you like her yet are acting like a wuss and not making any moves on her!

The Muscly Jerk
 
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Lust

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evasive said:
I'm in a bit of a dilemma

-Asked girl to lend me notes/exams from a class she took
-She says yes, but sounds irritated
-I like her, want to ask her out
-She probably thinks I am using her
-This is because I have asked her to copy her lab before, and she said "'All u do is use me!"
-I really want her notes/exams from that class (good study material), I need them bad lol, but don't want to seem like I am using her
-I will be seeing her tomorrow, which is when she will give me the materials

What should I do?
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What should you do? How about make a fvcking move already?
 
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