"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl is probably thinking I am using her, however I want to ask her out

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evasive

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I'm in a bit of a dilemma

-Asked girl to lend me notes/exams from a class she took
-She says yes, but sounds irritated
-I like her, want to ask her out
-She probably thinks I am using her
-This is because I have asked her to copy her lab before, and she said "'All u do is use me!"
-I really want her notes/exams from that class (good study material), I need them bad lol, but don't want to seem like I am using her
-I will be seeing her tomorrow, which is when she will give me the materials

What should I do?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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WaterTiger

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If you're always borrowing her notes, she probably thinks you're a doofus who never takes notes and sleeps through class. Or she thinks you take bad notes. How about this line " "Let me take you out for a drink to say thanks for the loan of the notes." After that, let your sarging abilities take over.
 
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musclyjerk

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evasive said:
I'm in a bit of a dilemma

-Asked girl to lend me notes/exams from a class she took
-She says yes, but sounds irritated
-I like her, want to ask her out
-She probably thinks I am using her
-This is because I have asked her to copy her lab before, and she said "'All u do is use me!"
-I really want her notes/exams from that class (good study material), I need them bad lol, but don't want to seem like I am using her
-I will be seeing her tomorrow, which is when she will give me the materials

What should I do?
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She's perhaps irritated because she knows you like her yet are acting like a wuss and not making any moves on her!

The Muscly Jerk
 
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Lust

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evasive said:
I'm in a bit of a dilemma

-Asked girl to lend me notes/exams from a class she took
-She says yes, but sounds irritated
-I like her, want to ask her out
-She probably thinks I am using her
-This is because I have asked her to copy her lab before, and she said "'All u do is use me!"
-I really want her notes/exams from that class (good study material), I need them bad lol, but don't want to seem like I am using her
-I will be seeing her tomorrow, which is when she will give me the materials

What should I do?
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What should you do? How about make a fvcking move already?
 
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