"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girl is probably thinking I am using her, however I want to ask her out

evasive

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I'm in a bit of a dilemma

-Asked girl to lend me notes/exams from a class she took
-She says yes, but sounds irritated
-I like her, want to ask her out
-She probably thinks I am using her
-This is because I have asked her to copy her lab before, and she said "'All u do is use me!"
-I really want her notes/exams from that class (good study material), I need them bad lol, but don't want to seem like I am using her
-I will be seeing her tomorrow, which is when she will give me the materials

What should I do?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

WaterTiger

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If you're always borrowing her notes, she probably thinks you're a doofus who never takes notes and sleeps through class. Or she thinks you take bad notes. How about this line " "Let me take you out for a drink to say thanks for the loan of the notes." After that, let your sarging abilities take over.
 

musclyjerk

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evasive said:
I'm in a bit of a dilemma

-Asked girl to lend me notes/exams from a class she took
-She says yes, but sounds irritated
-I like her, want to ask her out
-She probably thinks I am using her
-This is because I have asked her to copy her lab before, and she said "'All u do is use me!"
-I really want her notes/exams from that class (good study material), I need them bad lol, but don't want to seem like I am using her
-I will be seeing her tomorrow, which is when she will give me the materials

What should I do?
She's perhaps irritated because she knows you like her yet are acting like a wuss and not making any moves on her!

The Muscly Jerk
 
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Lust

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evasive said:
I'm in a bit of a dilemma

-Asked girl to lend me notes/exams from a class she took
-She says yes, but sounds irritated
-I like her, want to ask her out
-She probably thinks I am using her
-This is because I have asked her to copy her lab before, and she said "'All u do is use me!"
-I really want her notes/exams from that class (good study material), I need them bad lol, but don't want to seem like I am using her
-I will be seeing her tomorrow, which is when she will give me the materials

What should I do?
What should you do? How about make a fvcking move already?
 
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