“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

girl is much funnier than me, how to improve?

night101

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 25, 2006
Messages
25
Reaction score
0
The girl i'm seeing right now is hilarious, she pulls out one liners like nothing. I feel friggin lame.

Anyone have advice on how to become a smooth conversationalist and funny.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

DonDan

Banned
Joined
Oct 30, 2006
Messages
227
Reaction score
0
Shezz i read your reply and i thought it was pretty interesting. What the hell is social value / sexual value and monetary??

I Was wondering... earlier today i talked to my ex (im still trying to win her back), i told her i lost all my friends.. is that like social value?? Does this mean that i lowered it and she will be farther away from my grasp? o_O
 

night101

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 25, 2006
Messages
25
Reaction score
0
Why do you need to be funnier than her? Laugh at her, enjoy being in her company.

The only value you need to convey is good social value, sexual value and monetary. The rest is irrelevent, don't go trying to steal her thunder or getting jealous. Embrace your situation.
? wtf
I don't need to be funnier than her, she just made it more apparent to me that I can improve my conversation skills

(also I already read the bible section on this, and it's that's really basic stuff)
 

THE_ADDMAN

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 27, 2005
Messages
816
Reaction score
5
Age
40
Location
Newmarket, Ontario
Shezz said:
Why do you need to be funnier than her? Laugh at her, enjoy being in her company.

The only value you need to convey is good social value, sexual value and monetary. The rest is irrelevent, don't go trying to steal her thunder or getting jealous. Embrace your situation.

Sarge On...

Excellent point. :up:
Everyone is always concerned with having to be better than the girl at everything. You dont have to be.
If I find out she is better at something that I am interested in becoming better at, I actually encourage her to teach me things.
(kind of a form of baiting her to DHV for you MMers ;))

so I learn a new skill, she feels attracted to you, because you demonstrated that you admire her skill at something, and its a great way to spend time together with her. Win-win-win :)
 

Ripper

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 9, 2006
Messages
345
Reaction score
3
night101 said:
The girl i'm seeing right now is hilarious, she pulls out one liners like nothing. I feel friggin lame.

Anyone have advice on how to become a smooth conversationalist and funny.
Mate I would kill for a girl like this. Use her humour to QUALIFY her. Tell her how cool it is that she can make you laugh.

Double whammy: 1) she gets a compliment that may well be original and different 2)you do some strong framing. She is the one trying to impress you

good luck.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Top