"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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girl is much funnier than me, how to improve?

night101

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The girl i'm seeing right now is hilarious, she pulls out one liners like nothing. I feel friggin lame.

Anyone have advice on how to become a smooth conversationalist and funny.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Shezz i read your reply and i thought it was pretty interesting. What the hell is social value / sexual value and monetary??

I Was wondering... earlier today i talked to my ex (im still trying to win her back), i told her i lost all my friends.. is that like social value?? Does this mean that i lowered it and she will be farther away from my grasp? o_O
 

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Why do you need to be funnier than her? Laugh at her, enjoy being in her company.

The only value you need to convey is good social value, sexual value and monetary. The rest is irrelevent, don't go trying to steal her thunder or getting jealous. Embrace your situation.
? wtf
I don't need to be funnier than her, she just made it more apparent to me that I can improve my conversation skills

(also I already read the bible section on this, and it's that's really basic stuff)
 

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Shezz said:
Why do you need to be funnier than her? Laugh at her, enjoy being in her company.

The only value you need to convey is good social value, sexual value and monetary. The rest is irrelevent, don't go trying to steal her thunder or getting jealous. Embrace your situation.

Sarge On...

Excellent point. :up:
Everyone is always concerned with having to be better than the girl at everything. You dont have to be.
If I find out she is better at something that I am interested in becoming better at, I actually encourage her to teach me things.
(kind of a form of baiting her to DHV for you MMers ;))

so I learn a new skill, she feels attracted to you, because you demonstrated that you admire her skill at something, and its a great way to spend time together with her. Win-win-win :)
 

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night101 said:
The girl i'm seeing right now is hilarious, she pulls out one liners like nothing. I feel friggin lame.

Anyone have advice on how to become a smooth conversationalist and funny.
Mate I would kill for a girl like this. Use her humour to QUALIFY her. Tell her how cool it is that she can make you laugh.

Double whammy: 1) she gets a compliment that may well be original and different 2)you do some strong framing. She is the one trying to impress you

good luck.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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