"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
girl is much funnier than me, how to improve?
- Thread starter night101
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I Was wondering... earlier today i talked to my ex (im still trying to win her back), i told her i lost all my friends.. is that like social value?? Does this mean that i lowered it and she will be farther away from my grasp?
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
Shezz said:
Excellent point.
Everyone is always concerned with having to be better than the girl at everything. You dont have to be.
If I find out she is better at something that I am interested in becoming better at, I actually encourage her to teach me things.
(kind of a form of baiting her to DHV for you MMers
)so I learn a new skill, she feels attracted to you, because you demonstrated that you admire her skill at something, and its a great way to spend time together with her. Win-win-win
Mate I would kill for a girl like this. Use her humour to QUALIFY her. Tell her how cool it is that she can make you laugh.night101 said:
Double whammy: 1) she gets a compliment that may well be original and different 2)you do some strong framing. She is the one trying to impress you
good luck.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.