"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl is lesbian or maybe bi what do i do?

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She has high IL and she likes me like crazy, she has her female bestie whom she 4uks, she's a closeted lesbian gay (i saw a convo on her Facebook i have full access to her fb) i like this girl but I think she's using me she doesn't want to be sexual with me kino etc I always initiate kino but when i go home she starts calling my phone like a mad dog that she is... what is the way forward? I'm starting to hate people who are lez.. atleast tell me in my face about your sexuality.. wtf is she leading me on for? when I go NC she'll start crying and begging like a mad dog but when I'm with her she becomes shy and wait for me to initiate smh...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If she’s Lesbo, she’s using you for everything she needs but the sex.… She may want you to play a major role in an outer straight charade for her if she’s still closeted… Who knows
If she’s Bi, you have twice the normal competition.
It’s always better to play with straight women for obvious reasons.
 
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its very easy to know if someones is on your fb:
- you can check your account history, what was checked searched at what time from what ip.
- when was your ip last time logged on
- if messages are read or not
- even if u turn to offline on pc you will still appear online on mobiles
 
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sosousage said:
its very easy to know if someones is on your fb:
- you can check your account history, what was checked searched at what time from what ip.
- when was your ip last time logged on
- if messages are read or not
- even if u turn to offline on pc you will still appear online on mobiles
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Yeah but after reading a message i mark as UNREAD.
 
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I cant believe someone would post this.

I'm done for today...SMFH...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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