"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl is lesbian or maybe bi what do i do?

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She has high IL and she likes me like crazy, she has her female bestie whom she 4uks, she's a closeted lesbian gay (i saw a convo on her Facebook i have full access to her fb) i like this girl but I think she's using me she doesn't want to be sexual with me kino etc I always initiate kino but when i go home she starts calling my phone like a mad dog that she is... what is the way forward? I'm starting to hate people who are lez.. atleast tell me in my face about your sexuality.. wtf is she leading me on for? when I go NC she'll start crying and begging like a mad dog but when I'm with her she becomes shy and wait for me to initiate smh...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If she’s Lesbo, she’s using you for everything she needs but the sex.… She may want you to play a major role in an outer straight charade for her if she’s still closeted… Who knows
If she’s Bi, you have twice the normal competition.
It’s always better to play with straight women for obvious reasons.
 
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its very easy to know if someones is on your fb:
- you can check your account history, what was checked searched at what time from what ip.
- when was your ip last time logged on
- if messages are read or not
- even if u turn to offline on pc you will still appear online on mobiles
 

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its very easy to know if someones is on your fb:
- you can check your account history, what was checked searched at what time from what ip.
- when was your ip last time logged on
- if messages are read or not
- even if u turn to offline on pc you will still appear online on mobiles
Yeah but after reading a message i mark as UNREAD.
 

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I cant believe someone would post this.

I'm done for today...SMFH...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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