"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl is crying - What to do in this situation

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Hello,

I am asking this just to understand the situation ....

If you like a girl but you are not GF & BF and she's crying for some reason what a guy needs to do in this situation.

Personally i am a person who just see this and walk away since i am not attached to my feelings so much...

kind of a weird question but i would like to hear your opinion.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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give her a bunch of non-descript, un-labeled vitamin c pills and tell her you'll help her commit suicide. fetch her a glass of water. stroke her hair a couple of times. look serious. bite your lips. then leave.
 
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bricks said:
give her a bunch of non-descript, un-labeled vitamin c pills and tell her you'll help her commit suicide. fetch her a glass of water. stroke her hair a couple of times. look serious. bite your lips. then leave.
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lol, this is what i always do, though i am doing something wrong.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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LOL.... i know its a stupid question.

usually i just ignore it and move on but i thought i am doing something wrong not treating her right..
 
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what i meant is no matter what is the reason she's crying is it good idea to come and comfort her? will this looks like you are a wuss or whatever?
 
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I use it as an excuse to say something that might turn her on to me later.
 
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This really is context specific. 95% of the time you just let her do what she needs to do and either leave her be. The other 5% you can be the shoulder she cries on, but beware becoming the emotional tampon.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Upside said:
This really is context specific. 95% of the time you just let her do what she needs to do and either leave her be. The other 5% you can be the shoulder she cries on, but beware becoming the emotional tampon.
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yeah... i don't want to be where the 5 % are.
 
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