"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girl is crying - What to do in this situation

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Hello,

I am asking this just to understand the situation ....

If you like a girl but you are not GF & BF and she's crying for some reason what a guy needs to do in this situation.

Personally i am a person who just see this and walk away since i am not attached to my feelings so much...

kind of a weird question but i would like to hear your opinion.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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give her a bunch of non-descript, un-labeled vitamin c pills and tell her you'll help her commit suicide. fetch her a glass of water. stroke her hair a couple of times. look serious. bite your lips. then leave.
 
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bricks said:
give her a bunch of non-descript, un-labeled vitamin c pills and tell her you'll help her commit suicide. fetch her a glass of water. stroke her hair a couple of times. look serious. bite your lips. then leave.
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lol, this is what i always do, though i am doing something wrong.
 

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LOL.... i know its a stupid question.

usually i just ignore it and move on but i thought i am doing something wrong not treating her right..
 
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what i meant is no matter what is the reason she's crying is it good idea to come and comfort her? will this looks like you are a wuss or whatever?
 
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I use it as an excuse to say something that might turn her on to me later.
 
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This really is context specific. 95% of the time you just let her do what she needs to do and either leave her be. The other 5% you can be the shoulder she cries on, but beware becoming the emotional tampon.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Upside said:
This really is context specific. 95% of the time you just let her do what she needs to do and either leave her be. The other 5% you can be the shoulder she cries on, but beware becoming the emotional tampon.
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yeah... i don't want to be where the 5 % are.
 
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