"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girl is crying - What to do in this situation

zorg198

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Hello,

I am asking this just to understand the situation ....

If you like a girl but you are not GF & BF and she's crying for some reason what a guy needs to do in this situation.

Personally i am a person who just see this and walk away since i am not attached to my feelings so much...

kind of a weird question but i would like to hear your opinion.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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give her a bunch of non-descript, un-labeled vitamin c pills and tell her you'll help her commit suicide. fetch her a glass of water. stroke her hair a couple of times. look serious. bite your lips. then leave.
 

zorg198

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bricks said:
give her a bunch of non-descript, un-labeled vitamin c pills and tell her you'll help her commit suicide. fetch her a glass of water. stroke her hair a couple of times. look serious. bite your lips. then leave.

lol, this is what i always do, though i am doing something wrong.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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zorg198

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LOL.... i know its a stupid question.

usually i just ignore it and move on but i thought i am doing something wrong not treating her right..
 

zorg198

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what i meant is no matter what is the reason she's crying is it good idea to come and comfort her? will this looks like you are a wuss or whatever?
 

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I use it as an excuse to say something that might turn her on to me later.
 

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This really is context specific. 95% of the time you just let her do what she needs to do and either leave her be. The other 5% you can be the shoulder she cries on, but beware becoming the emotional tampon.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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zorg198

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Upside said:
This really is context specific. 95% of the time you just let her do what she needs to do and either leave her be. The other 5% you can be the shoulder she cries on, but beware becoming the emotional tampon.

yeah... i don't want to be where the 5 % are.
 
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