"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girl is coming up to visit tomorrow, in need of advice

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Here's the history. A girl named Kelly has been sleeping with one of my roommates for a long time now. Sam lives about 100 miles away but comes and visits every few weekends. She visited last weekend and brought her friend Erin (HB8) along. We went to a college house party that night. Using the knowledge that I've gained as a member of this forum, I was able to create attraction.

We left the party together and found ourselves in my bedroom when we got back to my apartment. We made out a long time. I unsnapped her bra but her shirt never came off. I undid her belt and unzipped her jeans but she put on resistance everytime that I tried to reach down to the promised land. She however made a poor attempt at jacking me off. She slept in my bed that night. I didn't number close her.

She wasn't a good kisser and didn't know how to work a penis so I assumed that night that she was a virgin. I found out the next day that she indeed is.

She is coming back to visit tomorrow.

How can I get her comfortable and trusting enough in order to lay her?

What are some tips on how to deal with a first timer?

p.s. I'm also a virgin, but I wish that she wasn't so that this would be easier.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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read gunwitch guide
 
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Originally posted by reyalp
read gunwitch guide
I have read it. Thought it was a great article too. Maybe I'll read it again.

I created this thread fishing for techniques specific to virgins though.
 

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ah, gotcha.

rub on top of her jeans down there like you're rubbing on a genie bottle and wishing that her pants would disappear. they just might!
 
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