"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girl is coming up to visit tomorrow, in need of advice

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Here's the history. A girl named Kelly has been sleeping with one of my roommates for a long time now. Sam lives about 100 miles away but comes and visits every few weekends. She visited last weekend and brought her friend Erin (HB8) along. We went to a college house party that night. Using the knowledge that I've gained as a member of this forum, I was able to create attraction.

We left the party together and found ourselves in my bedroom when we got back to my apartment. We made out a long time. I unsnapped her bra but her shirt never came off. I undid her belt and unzipped her jeans but she put on resistance everytime that I tried to reach down to the promised land. She however made a poor attempt at jacking me off. She slept in my bed that night. I didn't number close her.

She wasn't a good kisser and didn't know how to work a penis so I assumed that night that she was a virgin. I found out the next day that she indeed is.

She is coming back to visit tomorrow.

How can I get her comfortable and trusting enough in order to lay her?

What are some tips on how to deal with a first timer?

p.s. I'm also a virgin, but I wish that she wasn't so that this would be easier.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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read gunwitch guide
 
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Originally posted by reyalp
read gunwitch guide
I have read it. Thought it was a great article too. Maybe I'll read it again.

I created this thread fishing for techniques specific to virgins though.
 

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ah, gotcha.

rub on top of her jeans down there like you're rubbing on a genie bottle and wishing that her pants would disappear. they just might!
 
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