"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girl is coming up to visit tomorrow, in need of advice

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Here's the history. A girl named Kelly has been sleeping with one of my roommates for a long time now. Sam lives about 100 miles away but comes and visits every few weekends. She visited last weekend and brought her friend Erin (HB8) along. We went to a college house party that night. Using the knowledge that I've gained as a member of this forum, I was able to create attraction.

We left the party together and found ourselves in my bedroom when we got back to my apartment. We made out a long time. I unsnapped her bra but her shirt never came off. I undid her belt and unzipped her jeans but she put on resistance everytime that I tried to reach down to the promised land. She however made a poor attempt at jacking me off. She slept in my bed that night. I didn't number close her.

She wasn't a good kisser and didn't know how to work a penis so I assumed that night that she was a virgin. I found out the next day that she indeed is.

She is coming back to visit tomorrow.

How can I get her comfortable and trusting enough in order to lay her?

What are some tips on how to deal with a first timer?

p.s. I'm also a virgin, but I wish that she wasn't so that this would be easier.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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read gunwitch guide
 
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Originally posted by reyalp
read gunwitch guide
I have read it. Thought it was a great article too. Maybe I'll read it again.

I created this thread fishing for techniques specific to virgins though.
 

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ah, gotcha.

rub on top of her jeans down there like you're rubbing on a genie bottle and wishing that her pants would disappear. they just might!
 
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