"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ok, so I met this girl at the gym. We hit it off real well, I know she likes me, she even told me I was hot. Well, she invited me to come to a pool party at her aparment complex this Friday. She was even joking around and said her and her roomate were gonna get naked, lol. Well, I'm pretty sure we'll end up in her apartment later. I'm not sure if I want to start a relationship with her, you know, boyfriend girlfriend thing, I kinda just want some action right now cause I haven't had any since me and my ex broke up 4 months ago, but wouldn't mind being bf, gf with this chick. Any advice?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yeah, i know, lol....but i haven't posted in a while, so i just wanna hear what you guys have to say ;)
 
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She said her and her friend would be naked so isolate both of them and tell them that from your understanding both of them are way more clothed than you had expected. If all you want is a piece of ass than from what you say you shouldn't have a hard time with her.
 
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Really if all you want is ass, then there should be little holding you back. If you want a relationship then try and get to know her.

But seems to me like she wants your ass too so you're the one in control. Decide if you really want to be with her for the next six months or a one night stand.
 
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I can't believe you even posted this question. You should at least try to lay some pipe. Whether or not you want her to be your g/f or not is completely up to you. If you're ready to have a new relationship then you should persue, if not then leave it alone.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yeah, I plan on making some moves on her Friday when we go up to her apartment, cause I know I'm gonna be seeing that apartment, lol....just gota figure out how to go about this cause after talking to her more at the gym today, I really wouldn't mind a relationship. Only problem is I'm a model/actor and am gonna be traveling from my home, to new york, to LA a lot soon and don't know how that would affect things
 
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