"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ok, so I met this girl at the gym. We hit it off real well, I know she likes me, she even told me I was hot. Well, she invited me to come to a pool party at her aparment complex this Friday. She was even joking around and said her and her roomate were gonna get naked, lol. Well, I'm pretty sure we'll end up in her apartment later. I'm not sure if I want to start a relationship with her, you know, boyfriend girlfriend thing, I kinda just want some action right now cause I haven't had any since me and my ex broke up 4 months ago, but wouldn't mind being bf, gf with this chick. Any advice?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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yeah, i know, lol....but i haven't posted in a while, so i just wanna hear what you guys have to say ;)
 
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She said her and her friend would be naked so isolate both of them and tell them that from your understanding both of them are way more clothed than you had expected. If all you want is a piece of ass than from what you say you shouldn't have a hard time with her.
 
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Really if all you want is ass, then there should be little holding you back. If you want a relationship then try and get to know her.

But seems to me like she wants your ass too so you're the one in control. Decide if you really want to be with her for the next six months or a one night stand.
 
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I can't believe you even posted this question. You should at least try to lay some pipe. Whether or not you want her to be your g/f or not is completely up to you. If you're ready to have a new relationship then you should persue, if not then leave it alone.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah, I plan on making some moves on her Friday when we go up to her apartment, cause I know I'm gonna be seeing that apartment, lol....just gota figure out how to go about this cause after talking to her more at the gym today, I really wouldn't mind a relationship. Only problem is I'm a model/actor and am gonna be traveling from my home, to new york, to LA a lot soon and don't know how that would affect things
 
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